December 18, 2020
Where did I get this idea? The idea that things would play out as they do in my imagination. It's surprising, the mismatch between expectations and reality. The movie playing in my head that accompanies anticipation is one thing; reality is far different.
Life is formless, and it is particular. Each mountain, each lake, each river, each tree, each stone has its own existence. Each lives its own life.
Intersecting this moment, after innumerable eons of tumbling in the river, washed up to the shore, this small pillow of basalt shares its warmth in my hands.
Noticing make the difference. What is not noticed can't be loved. How can you live a good life if you don't notice what is actually happening in your life? The skill of noticing is an inherited trait and one that can be nurtured.
References
- Van Dyke, John Charles. The Desert: Further Studies in Natural Appearances
- Mary Oliver (2016): Upstream, Penguin Press
Other stuff I've written on this topic
This post is meant to help us renew our commitment to caring for the world and remind our future selves to be fractionally better than before. This post points to where I want to work on my mental fitness and 'adulting.'. It is a reminder to operate in the world with love and compassion and includes tips put together in moments of clarity to help when caught up in the world's uncontrollable chaos. Please, continue the conversation anytime: will@kestrelcreek.com.
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31/31 Challenge
- Dec 31, 2020 Imitating Superman Dec 31, 2020
- Dec 30, 2020 What Would You Tell Your Twenty-Something Self Dec 30, 2020
- Dec 29, 2020 Lucky Dec 29, 2020
- Dec 28, 2020 See looks beautiful Dec 28, 2020
- Dec 27, 2020 Kinship Dec 27, 2020
- Dec 26, 2020 The big round dog bed Dec 26, 2020
- Dec 25, 2020 Smiling Meditation Dec 25, 2020
- Dec 24, 2020 A Smiling Experiment Dec 24, 2020
- Dec 23, 2020 Walk Time! Smell Time! Dec 23, 2020
- Dec 22, 2020 Ask yourself these questions. Dec 22, 2020
- Dec 21, 2020 We short change our own lives through inattention Dec 21, 2020
- Dec 20, 2020 When death comes Dec 20, 2020
- Dec 19, 2020 More noticing Dec 19, 2020
- Dec 18, 2020 Nurture Noticing Dec 18, 2020
- Dec 17, 2020 Inexplicable Depth Dec 17, 2020
- Dec 16, 2020 Walking is thinking Dec 16, 2020
- Dec 15, 2020 Writing on thin air Dec 15, 2020
- Dec 14, 2020 Iterate through failure Dec 14, 2020
- Dec 13, 2020 Writing is the technology of thinking Dec 13, 2020
- Dec 12, 2020 Attentional Autonomy Dec 12, 2020
- Dec 11, 2020 A sence of place Dec 11, 2020
- Dec 10, 2020 Your smile spreads happiness Dec 10, 2020
- Dec 9, 2020 Hupomnemata/Zettelkasten Dec 9, 2020
- Dec 8, 2020 Quietude Dec 8, 2020
- Dec 7, 2020 Attention Strength Training Dec 7, 2020
- Dec 6, 2020 You are what you do Dec 6, 2020
- Dec 5, 2020 Tiny moments for gratitude expression Dec 5, 2020
- Dec 4, 2020 Life is but a dream Dec 4, 2020
- Dec 3, 2020 Falling in Love Dec 3, 2020
- Dec 2, 2020 To whom do I report the theft... Dec 2, 2020
- Dec 1, 2020 Getting Started Dec 1, 2020